Find hope and healing after infidelity, compulsive sexual behavior, sex addiction, unwanted pornography use.

I support women, couples, and all adults navigating betrayal trauma and grief.

Services:

Trauma-Informed, Inclusive Therapy Specializations

Betrayal Trauma Therapy for Women and All Adults

-Specialized therapy for those healing from infidelity, compulsive sexual behavior, sex addiction discovery, unwanted pornography use, sexual addiction, and pornography addiction in their relationships. As an APSATS-certified partner specialist I understand the unique trauma you experience. I’m one of the few in Utah and Idaho who also welcomes LGBTQ partners seeking the same specialized care.

Couples Therapy After Infidelity

-Rebuilding trust and repairing relationships after betrayal trauma. I work with couples of all configurations in Utah and Idaho navigating affair recovery, relationship breaches, and trust rebuilding after complusive sexual behavior.

Grief Counseling for Trauma & Loss

-Greif counseling in Utah and Idaho for women, couples, and all adults processing loss, relationship endings, and the grief that accompanies betrayal trauma. Professional support for complicated grief and loss.

 

ABOUT

Becky Ruff- Head Clinician

Licensed Clinical Mental Health Counselor

APSATS-Certified Partner Specialist

I am Becky Ruff, a betrayal trauma therapist and APSATS-certified partner specialist serving women, couples, and all adults in Utah and Idaho. While practice specializes in therapy for women, i work with all adults - and I am proud to be an LGBTQ-affirming therapist in a field where very few APSATS certified specialists openly serve the LGBTQ community.

My practice is built on the principle that betrayal trauma recovery is possible- whether you’re healing from betrayal from infidelity, sex addiction, out-of-control sexual behavior, pornography addiction, unwanted pornography use. Infidelity can also include emotional and financial infidelity.

Whoever you are, however you identify, whoever you love - you deserve specialized, affirming care.

As a partner specialist, I specialize in supporting spouses navigating betrayal trauma symptoms and the complex grief of discovering out-of-control sexual behavior in their partner.

I believe healing is possible through honesty, courage, and the right support.

Offering counseling services in-person in Utah and online in the states of Utah and Idaho.

My private practice is designed to meet you where you are.

 




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